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When you find yourself and what truly makes you happy, that’s when you’ll begin to attract someone who is on your level. There’s not much to it, know that all guys enjoy a challenge and all women enjoy being chased. It’s just the way it goes. Know that when you are busy doing what you’re supposed to be doing, that is when someone special will come into your life. Don’t over think it, don’t try to impress anyone. What attracts someone special to another person believe it or not is their passion for someone thing else. That’s why looks don’t matter because if their is nothing behind it, if their is no qualities to the person it won’t last. Trust me, most people, sensible people are turned on by people who have a direction in life, not by people who just know how to look good. Make sure your direction in life is straight to their heart, and they’ll be yours. <3

take your time in developing an attraction to someone. Share your heart, your dreams, and your fears. Let their love in, let it soothe your fears, support your dreams, and believe in you, as you’ll believe in them. Don’t expect that you will never disagree, argue, or fight. As you stay together, conflicts will arise. Through them all, it is important to, if nothing else, intellectually remember that this is the person you love. Do something every chance you have to make your love for each other worth while. By reminding yourself daily that their love is real and alive, you will keep your relationship vibrant and healthy. 

It is important to understand that what you value in your partner as you embark in the relationship has significant implications for the outcome of the relationship. If you’re stuck on things that won’t matter, then the relationship will crumble. It is important to love the person for their innermost being and to have friendship and genuine caring. Fall in love for what’s inside the person, and you will have the key ingredient to a successful, wonderful, outstanding relationship. <3